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I had the absolute pleasure of sitting down with Dr Laurie Mintz, a sex therapist, professor, and author of Becoming Cliterate. We explored the cultural narratives surrounding female pleasure, the "orgasm gap," and practical ways to empower women to embrace their sexuality. Episode Summary Dr Laurie Mintz shared how her experience teaching human sexuality at the University of Florida revealed a shocking lack of knowledge about female anatomy and pleasure. This inspired her to write Becoming Cliterate and help women close the "orgasm gap." We covered loads of ground in this episode, including: The cultural myths and taboos that hold women back from embracing pleasure. Why understanding your anatomy is so important for empowerment. The difference between spontaneous and responsive desire, and how to reignite intimacy. Practical ways to prioritise pleasure and create a fulfilling sex life. This conversation is packed with humour, actionable advice, and relatable insights for anyone looking to reconnect with themselves and their relationships. Key Takeaways You're Not Broken: Struggling with desire or orgasms is common and can be addressed with the right tools and mindset. Responsive Desire: You don’t need to wait to feel "in the mood" - desire often follows arousal. Prioritise Pleasure: Schedule time for intimacy and create an environment that feels good for you. Resources & Links Becoming Cliterate by Dr Laurie Mintz A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex by Dr Laurie Mintz Connect with Dr Laurie: www.drlauriemintz.com Follow Dr Laurie on Instagram and Facebook: @DrLaurieMintz Find out more about Juliette Karaman here: https://feelfullyyou.com Follow Juliette on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/juliettekaraman/ Follow Juliette on Facebook here: https://www.facebook.com/juliette.karamanvanschaardenburg Don't forget to Rate and leave a review so more people can tune in and the ripple effect spreads further.

You can’t talk about sexual health without talking about the clitoris—yet somehow, we still do. In this powerful episode of TwoX Labs, Dr. Erika Miley sits down with world-renowned sex therapist, researcher, and author Dr. Laurie Mintz (Becoming Cliterate) to talk about why cis-women’s pleasure is still being ignored, and what therapists and healthcare providers must do to change that. 💥 This episode is for anyone who’s tired of the shame, silence, and bad sex ed. Let’s rewrite the narrative. 💡 What You’ll Learn: ✅ The full structure and purpose of the clitoris (yes, it’s more than just a “button”) ✅ Why the pleasure gap still exists in 2025 ✅ How sexual shame is reinforced by culture, providers, and misinformation ✅ What therapists and educators can do to center pleasure in practice ✅ How to talk about sex with clients—without discomfort or awkwardness 🎧 This conversation is smart, accessible, and a must-watch for therapists, sex educators, and anyone who cares about closing the pleasure gap. 📍 Follow @twoxlabs on Instagram, FB, and YouTube 🌐 More CEU content and expert episodes at www.twoxlabs.org 📧 Contact: twoxlabs@gmail.com Dr. Laurie's info: https://www.drlauriemintz.com/ 💜 Your pleasure matters. Your clients’ pleasure matters. Let’s talk about it. #BecomingCliterate #ClitorisEducation #SexTherapy #PleasureIsHealth #TwoXLabs #SexualWellness #SexEd #TherapistEducation #DrLaurieMintz #continuingeducation #therapist

Menopause changes intimacy—physically, emotionally, and in ways you might not expect. The connection you once had with your partner may feel different, conversations don’t flow as easily, and you may even wonder if things will ever feel the same again. But intimacy doesn’t have to disappear—it just needs to evolve. In this episode of Real Insights, Holly Osterman sits down with @drlauriemintz a licensed psychologist and author of the book, “A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex,” to explore how menopause impacts intimacy. And, more importantly, what women can do to bring back connection, confidence, and closeness. They discuss why intimacy shifts in midlife, how to navigate those changes, and how to start the conversation with your partner in a way that actually works. And you’ll also find out: o Why menopause changes intimacy—and how to adapt o How to rebuild emotional connection when things feel distant o What to do when you don’t feel like yourself anymore o How to move past the fear of starting the conversation o Practical ways to reignite intimacy in midlife Intimacy after menopause isn’t just about sex. It’s about feeling seen, valued, and connected—both with yourself and with your partner. Dr. Mintz shares science-backed insights and practical strategies to help women embrace this new stage with confidence. This conversation is for every woman who has ever wondered: Can we get that spark back? Spoiler alert: Yes, you can. And it starts with small, intentional steps. Want to connect with Dr. Laurie Mintz? Find her here: Her Website: https://www.drlauriemintz.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlauriemintz/ YouTube: www.youtube.com/@drlauriemintz 00:00 Introduction 00:50 Meet Dr. Laurie Mintz 01:50 From Psychologist to Sex Therapist 03:43 Emotional Distance in Relationships 05:37 Reconnecting with Your Partner 07:39 Effective Communication Strategies 11:19 Life Shifts and Intimacy 12:19 Handling Built-Up Resentments 15:28 Activities to Rebuild Intimacy 23:05 The Importance of Self-Care 27:11 Hormone Therapy and Menopause 32:26 Connect with Dr. Laurie Mintz #intimacy #sexandmenopause #drlauriemintz ___ Join the Conversation at Empart At Empart, we're starting a new conversation about menopause and midlife. Founded by Holly Osterman, our platform offers a space for women to ask questions, tell their stories, and share their wisdom. Join our free community today at https://www.joinempart.com. Empart: Real Stories. Real Wisdom. Real Menopause. Holly's book brings together the collective wisdom of the old Menopause ChitChat community, now reborn as Empart. Raw, relatable, and packed with practical insights, it's a must-read for anyone navigating menopause and feeling a little lost. Available on Amazon in paperback and Kindle formats: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CK3VSS6Z Important Note: The information provided is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult your healthcare provider to discuss your unique symptoms and treatment options.

Did you know that 96% of women say external stimulation is their most reliable way to orgasm? Yes, you read correctly: not penetration alone! Most men really want to satisfy their lovers. They have just been inundated by false information (porn…) and not turned to the Cliteracy experts… their woman! Sooooo… Join me in this uplifting conversation with sex therapist, Dr. Laurie Mintz, on how to become Cliterate… AND become a better lover in the process! She will BEG for MORE! More about Happy Couples Play Together: https://happycouplesplaytogether.com OR valdo@happycouplesplaytogether.com More about Dr. Laurie Mintz: https://www.drlauriemintz.com/ Dr. Laurie Mintz instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlauriemintz/ And of course, Dr. Mintz book Becoming Cliterate: https://www.amazon.com/Becoming-Cliterate-Orgasm-Equality-Matters/dp/0062664557/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2MES45DURCKGN&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.etJX3oy8TOoHy7Iz4vXXXXJZMsio5pkqQZ3Lsw8qftHTlvcordAiTFtHxiEnD6MfthgIBBQZgsI-Y1_f6CbK-NCtoB6oD_Bg6K-GRhzBWrI.nWKbmRC6MF6agFT1E2AXncoX6UgS9qlBYp6JemPxShA&dib_tag=se&keywords=becoming+cliterate+dr.+laurie+mintz+book&qid=1741979537&sprefix=becoming+cli%2Caps%2C184&sr=8-1 Time stamps: 0:00 Introducing Dr. Laurie Mintz 0:20 What is a sexually satisfied woman? 2:13 Men really care about pleasing their woman 4:45 Becoming Cliterate 6:47 Men become good lovers from being taught by women how to please them 8:19 Porn portrays false impressions about women’s pleasure 8:54 Nice Guys are terrified of asking about their sexual performance 9:43 Learning to talk about sex outside of the bedroom 11:04 How faking orgasms makes things worse 12:10 Calling in vs. calling out 13:01 Learning to give attention to the vulva 14:40 To really satisfy a woman, you have to unlearn what culture taught us 17:39 How important is it to talk about non-satisfying sex? 18:30 What is good enough sex? 19:07 Most women do not orgasm during hookups 20:59 Learning to see sex as the entire experience, not just intercourse 22:51 Just don’t expect her to orgasm just from penetration alone Artwork behind Valdo Lallemand by Frank Stella and Ellsworth Kelly. We wish you lots of love, joy, and playfulness!

Sexuality is at the heart of Dr. Laurie Mintz’s conversation with James Schmachtenberger, CEO of Qualia Life Sciences. They dive into the intricacies of sexual education and communication, highlighting how sexuality influences both personal pleasure and broader societal shifts, particularly in fostering orgasm equality. A critical takeaway is the importance of clitoral stimulation for female orgasm. Dr. Mintz shares that “only 4 to 18% of women orgasm from penetration alone,” underscoring the need to understand the clitoris' role in female pleasure. Mindfulness is another essential aspect of enhancing sexuality. Being fully present in one’s body can significantly improve sexual experiences. Practices like yoga and focusing on bodily sensations during intimacy elevate pleasure. Open communication about sexuality is vital for satisfying relationships. Dr. Mintz advocates for real-time communication during sex, as well as “kitchen table talks” to discuss preferences outside the bedroom. Through better sexual education, starting at a young age, we can bridge the orgasm gap and create healthier, more equitable sexual relationships. Dr. Mintz’s insights push us to rethink how we approach sex and pleasure, both for personal fulfillment and societal change. Connect with Qualia Life: Sponsored by Qualia Magnesium+: https://qualialife.com/magnesium. Use code magnesium when you shop Qualia Magnesium+ for an additional 15% off your order. Get in touch. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/qualialife/. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/qualialife. Email: support@qualialife.com.com. Connect with Dr. Laurie Mintz: https://www.instagram.com/drlauriemintz https://www.facebook.com/DrLaurieMintz/ https://x.com/drlauriemintz https://www.linkedin.com/in/laurie-mintz-a3972615 Timestamps: 0:00 Mindfulness and Yoga Enhance Sexual Well-Being and Orgasms 2:40 Bridging the Orgasm Gap Through Education and Awareness 6:23 Understanding and Addressing the Orgasm Gap in Sexual Encounters 9:25 Understanding Female Orgasm and Clitoral Stimulation 12:45 Understanding Women's Orgasm: Cultural Myths and Scientific Insights 20:42 The Impact of Sex Education on Sexual Violence and Pleasure 25:33 Join Qualia's Beta Program to Shape Future Health Products 26:16 The Impact of Porn Literacy and Repression on Sexual Behavior 30:54 Mindfulness and Embodiment Enhance Sexual Experiences 36:04 Prioritizing Sexuality for Health and Relationship Benefits 40:36 Closing the Orgasm Gap Through Communication and Self-Discovery

70% of women have faked satisfaction - it's time to stop. Dr. Laurie Mintz, author of "Becoming Cliterate," reveals groundbreaking research about pleasure after 50 and shares practical tools to enhance intimate satisfaction in midlife and beyond. → Did you know the best pleasure starts at age 50? → Learn why hormone treatments matter for vaginal health → Discover how to communicate your needs effectively → Master science-backed techniques for better satisfaction → Build confidence in your changing body 🎁 FREE GIFT: Download the Pleasure Upgrade Bundle ➡️ https://www.pleasureinthepause.com/gift CHAPTERS: 00:00 Why Most Women Fake Pleasure 04:58 Science Proves Satisfaction Improves With Age 11:32 The Truth About External Stimulation 15:20 How to Build Body Confidence 20:29 Understanding Your Body's Timing 30:09 Responsive vs Spontaneous Desire 34:00 Having The Talk With Your Partner 41:29 Pleasure as Your Birthright ABOUT DR. LAURIE MINTZ: Dr. Mintz is a renowned psychologist, professor, and author dedicated to helping people live more authentic, meaningful, and satisfying lives. Her groundbreaking book "Becoming Cliterate" has empowered thousands of women to enhance their intimate lives, backed by scientific research. ABOUT PLEASURE IN THE PAUSE: Join me, Gabriella Espinosa, as I guide midlife women to connect with their bodies, pleasure, and power through perimenopause, menopause, and beyond. As a Women's Health and Sexual Wellness Coach, I combine evidence-based research with Eastern wisdom to help you access the pleasure that is your birthright. CONNECT WITH DR. LAURIE MINTZ: Website: https://www.drlauriemintz.com/ Book: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0062664557/ About Gabriella Espinosa: I'm a women's health and sexuality coach dedicated to inspiring midlife women to feel more connected to their bodies, pleasure, and power through perimenopause, menopause, and beyond. Join me on this journey of self-discovery and empowerment! Get Your Free Pleasure Upgrade Bundle! → ♥️ https://www.pleasureinthepause.com/gift (7-Day Pleasure Body Journal + Guided Visualization + Pleasure Checklist) More helpful resources: → All Episodes: https://www.pleasureinthepause.com → Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gabriellaespinosa #PleasureInThePause #WomensHealth #Menopause #FemaleWellness #MidlifePleasure #WomensWellness #ClitoralHealth #SexualHealth #MenopauseSupport #WomensEmpowerment TAGS: female pleasure, menopause, midlife wellness, women's health, sexual wellness, pleasure after 50, hormone health, body confidence, intimate health, relationship advice, female sexuality, sexual education, women's empowerment, vulval health, mindfulness, pleasure practices

Sexual pain is something many women silently endure, thinking that it's normal.In this video, I talk to world renowned sex therapist and human sexuality professor at Florida University, Dr Lauiie Mintz, to find out some of the reasons behind pain during sex in women. #vvoxenglish #femaleorgasm #clitoris #orgasm How to finger a woman? 🤔😍😍😍 ‼️ #VvoxEnglish #sexualhealth #drlauriemintz https://youtu.be/ZmZ_rbi3iy8?si=QXMQzpjpwEm5Prxj Follow Dr Laurie Mintz https://www.drlauriemintz.com/ Follow Vvox Find out how sex can change your life: Subscribe 👇👇 https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7EuDClJN60HMTE9Nbg3sPQ?sub_confirmation=1

There are a minority of women for whom penis size matters. Who are these size queens? Is preference for penis size more psychology than biology. In this video I talk to world renowned sex therapist and human sexuality professor at Florida University, Dr Lauiie Mintz, on the right way to make a woman come. #vvoxmalayalam #femaleorgasm #clitoris #orgasm #doessizematter Follow Dr Laurie Mintz https://www.drlauriemintz.com/ Follow Vvox Find out how sex can change your life: Subscribe 👇👇 https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7EuDClJN60HMTE9Nbg3sPQ?sub_confirmation=1 WEBSITE https://www.vvox.in SOCIALS Facebook https://www.facebook.com/vvox.in Instagram https://www.instagram.com/p/CfsxzAGPbbZ/?igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY=

Sex education is vital for every man, if he wants to make a woman orgasm. As a growing number of women assert their sexual rights in the bed, it's time up for men and to think about their own sexual pleasure. In this video, I talk to world renowned sex therapist and human sexuality professor at Florida University, Dr Lauiie Mintz, on the right way to make a woman come. #vvoxenglish #femaleorgasm #clitoris #orgasm Follow Dr Laurie Mintz https://www.drlauriemintz.com/ Follow Vvox Find out how sex can change your life: Subscribe 👇👇 https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7EuDClJN60HMTE9Nbg3sPQ?sub_confirmation=1 WEBSITE https://www.vvox.in SOCIALS Facebook https://www.facebook.com/vvox.in Instagram https://www.instagram.com/p/CfsxzAGPbbZ/?igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY=

Does Penile Length actually matter in a sexual experience? What exactly is the Orgasm Gap? What can contribute to a great sexual experience with your partner? How can you help your female partner achieve better orgasms? All these answers are answered in this video interview with Dr. Laurie Mintz! Be sure to watch until the end, and be sure to check out her book! (affiliate links) Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters--And How to Get It by Laurie Mintz: https://amzn.to/3G80En9 She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner:https://amzn.to/3g2np1n Dr. Laurie Mintz is a feminist author, therapist, professor, and speaker whose life’s work has been committed to helping people live more authentic, meaningful, joyful—and sexually satisfying—lives through the art and science of psychology. As a tenured Professor at the University of Florida, she teaches (https://www.drlauriemintz.com/human-sexuality-professor) the Psychology of Human Sexuality to hundreds of undergraduate students each year. She also teaches and mentors graduate students in both their clinical and research training. Dr. Mintz has published over 50 research articles (https://www.drlauriemintz.com/human-sexuality-professor) in academic journals and six chapters in academic books. She has received numerous professional and teaching awards. With this same goal of providing scientifically-accurate, sex-positive information to enhance female pleasure, Dr. Mintz also writes a popular Psychology Today blog (https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/stress-and-sex). She also gives presentations and workshops (https://www.drlauriemintz.com/sexuality-education-speaker) to professionals and lay audiences and is often quoted in national and international media (https://www.drlauriemintz.com/mentions-and-quotes-on-human-sexual). For over 30 years, Dr. Mintz has also maintained a small private practice (https://www.drlauriemintz.com/sex-therapist), working with both individuals and couples on general and sexual issues. One of her greatest honors is supporting her clients during difficult times, as well as helping them make positive changes and reach life goals. Thanks for watching!! Come back EVERY MONDAY for a NEW video Rena Malik, MD is a urologist and pelvic surgeon on youtube to educate people about all things urology including erectile dysfunction, how to increase testosterone, problems with sex, premature ejaculation, urinary leakage, or incontinence, overactive bladder, urinary tract infections, prostate issues and more. Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/c/RenaMalikMD/?sub_confirmation=1 Share this video with a friend: https://youtu.be/EIYCyJPMZXI Chapters: 0:00 Intro Card 1:42 What is the Orgasm Gap? 3:26 What can contribute to this "Orgasm Gap"? 4:42 How does the Female Anatomy play a role in this? 7:04 How can men get more involved in Clitoral Stimulation? 8:57 How long does lubrication typically take? 11:25 What is mindfulness and how does it contribute to great sex? 14:08 Is pornography still safe? 18:35 Does Penile Size actually matter...? 21:27 Are Sex Toys a replacement? or an aid? ------------------------------------------------------ Check out these Playlists: Penis Problems?! Erectile Dysfunction, Premature Ejaculation & More: https://bit.ly/3wwivzS Overactive Bladder Treatment: https://bit.ly/3hMzBoP How to Increase Testosterone: https://bit.ly/2T9QJKV All my REACTION videos: https://youtu.be/_Dl46d7I1uI Reacting to Grey's Anatomy: https://youtu.be/LiDevzHnoos ------------------------------------------------------ Sign up for my e-mail list and get more content from me: https://renamalikmd.beehiiv.com/subscribe DOWNLOAD YOUR LIST OF BLADDER IRRITANTS https://renamalikmd.com/bladder-irritants-landing-page/ ----------------------------------------------------- Check out my Amazon storefront (affiliate links included): https://www.amazon.com/shop/renamalikm.d. Coupons & Discount codes (affiliate links included): http://www.renamalikmd.com/linktree ----------------------------------------------------- Let's Connect!: WEBSITE: http://www.renamalikmd.com I INSTAGRAM: @RenaMalikMD http://www.instagram.com/RenaMalikMD TWITTER: @RenaMalikMD http://twitter.com/RenaMalikMD FACEBOOK: @RenaMalikMD https://www.facebook.com/RenaMalikMD/ LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/renadmalik PINTEREST: https://www.pinterest.com/renamalikmd/ ------------------------------------------------------ DISCLAIMER: This video is purely educational and does not constitute medical advice. The content of this video is my personal opinion and not that of my employer(s). Use of this information is at your own risk. Rena Malik, M.D. will not assume any liability for any direct or indirect losses or damages that may result from the use of the information contained in this video including but not limited to economic loss, injury, illness, or death.